My Life as a Band Member – Second Chance plays KHS

This is the continuation of a series of posts – select Category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER to read in sequence.

I wish we had captured some video from those band days but luckily my brother Johnny was taking photography in high school and had his camera always with him.  He was our de facto band photographer.  After the Fiddlers Green gig on Fort Hood, we realized that we couldn’t play bars because Howard was underage.  We all were 18 years old by the Spring of 1981 and the drinking age at the time was 18, but Howard was still 16 or 17.  A problem for a band wanting to play out for people.  Somehow Dennis, who had attended Killeen High School, contacted the school and they allowed us to rent their auditorium.  This auditorium was enormous and had a huge stage that sat about 4-5 feet above the audience. We couldn’t believe our luck. So we booked a date and decided to sell tickets to help pay for the rental fee.

We sold quite a number of tickets.  I don’t remember ever having to pony up any money to help pay for the rental of the auditorium so I assume we sold enough tickets to cover the cost.  I don’t remember ever getting any extra money for playing so I also assume Dennis pocketed whatever extra money we may have made.  It turned out we had quite a number of fans willing to pay $2-$3 or whatever it was to come see us.  Even our parents helped out and bought tickets.

When the day came for Second Chance to play our big gig, we loaded up our equipment and drove up to the school and set up. We were our own roadies.  We had invested in our own microphones, amps and instruments at this point. No more borrowed or rented equipment.  We planned to use the auditorium sound system.  I cannot recall how everything was hooked up.  I don’t recall if we had a mixer or how the sound was being pushed to the speakers.  I can only guess that Dennis had friends at the high school who knew how to set up the auditorium sound system.  Since I was not playing an instrument I never bothered with those details.

After setting up our equipment, we changed into our stage outfits.  While Dennis opted to wear suspenders and no shirt like his idol Ted Nugent, me, Howard, Steve and Mick got this strange idea to wear kimonos. Not sure whose idea it was but I guess it was the influence of Rush.  We had seen pictures of Geddy Lee and Alex Lifeson wearing kimono type coats, so we thought they were cool. 

In addition to my my mother’s red kimono that she received as a gift from my father when he returned from a deployment to Thailand, I wore a black t-shirt and red pants, trying to emulate Sammy Hagar the red rocker.   I thought I was cool.  I had taken to carry around the top half of my microphone stand like Freddie Mercury.  I wrapped it in white tape similar to Freddie’s stand.

The auditorium, from what I could see from the stage, was about 1/4 full.  I could see the first 4-5 rows were full of friends and friends of friends.  I could also see my parents and Dennis’ parents parked in seats about 3/4 away from the stage.  I’m guessing to get away from the loud music.  As we started to play our set we had some of our friends try to work the theater lights from the side of the stage as best as they could.  Occasionally they would pull the wrong lever and we would be playing in the dark.  It was amateurish at best.

During one of our songs, I don’t recall which, there was an opportunity to get the crowd participating by clapping their hands.  I wanted to get everyone clapping, so what better way than to jump off the stage and run around the audience getting people to clap along with me.  Dennis couldn’t stop laughing at that.  For years we had a giggle every time we talked about the Killeen High gig. 

Mick with bad news, broken kick drum pedal

What I remember the most was our drummer Mick breaking his kick drum pedal halfway through our set.  Now we have 40-50 fans enjoying the show and no way to move forward unless we play without drums. Mick didn’t bring a spare pedal, he had one at his house.  With the help of some friends, Mick hopped in a car and headed for his house.  Killeen is a fairly small town and Mick lived less than 10 miles away.  In the meantime, to keep everyone still interested in us, we improvised.  Dennis started playing Stairway to Heaven by Led Zeppelin.  I knew the words but not the verse sequence, so I stood next to Dennis while he fed me the first line of each verse and I would sing that verse and then the next.  The crowd loved it.  When it came time for the drums to join in the song, Mick had returned with another pedal and replaced it just in time to come into the song as if we had planned it that way.  Totally improvised.  That was the first and only time we ever played Stairway to Heaven.  We had never even practiced it.  The concert was a success.  We were congratulated by all our friends and even our parents were impressed. 

The celebration wouldn’t last long. Second Chance was about to undergo a shake up.

The story continues….

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Retirement Ain’t Easy Merch

I’ve got a Retirement Ain’t Easy Zazzle store if you are interested in some Retirement Ain’t Easy Merchandise. Great gifts for the newly retired or the soon to be retired. Currently we have coffee mugs, travel mugs and beer steins, yes beer steins. T-shirts and more coming soon. Thanks for looking.

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2024 New Year’s Resolutions Q1 Report Card

It’s time to review my 2024 New Year’s Resolutions.  This is my 3rd year of doing this.  At the beginning of each year I set five personal goals for the year and see if I can complete them.  I grade myself each quarter with a wrap up at the end of the year.

So here are my five 2024 New Year’s Resolutions and where I am on completing them after one quarter of the year. 

Resolution #1 CREATE – Write, record and distribute my own song(s) or write my Memoir

I carried this resolution over from 2023 and I can say that I have finally successfully completed this.  I finally got around to recording, mixing, mastering and releasing two songs.  I am now an Artist on Spotify, Apple Music and YouTube music and you can buy my songs on iTunes

One song – Happy Song – I’ve had the riff for over 10 years and finally got it paired with some lyrics that I had laying around for probably 5 years.  The other song – My Retirement Song – I wrote the lyrics 3 months before my retirement.  Originally it was going to be a country song or folk song vibe.  I still have the Voice memo demo for the idea.  It turned out to be a Green Day type song with crunchy chords. 

Go stream my songs or buy from iTunes, only 99 cents.  Sometime later this year I will be working on my Sc-Fi novel or my memoir as a band member (current pieces of this are on this Blog – select category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER)
GRADE: A

Resolution #2 Continue to lose weight, another 25 lbs

Partial Failure.  I am stuck.  I float between 215 and 220 lbs.  Which is not bad considering last April I weighed 275 lbs and was told by my hip surgeon that I needed to lose the gut before he could operate.  I’ve gotten down to 195 lbs before so I know it’s possible.  My high school weight was around 190 lbs, this is because I played high school football… in Texas.  So I spent many off seasons pumping weights and could eat anything I wanted.  Now, a doughnut will make me gain 5 lbs.  Because I am at least maintaining my current weight after losing 60 lbs, I’m giving myself a D, not a complete failure.
GRADE: D

Resolution #3 One YouTube video per week

I am doing pretty good with this.  On my YouTube channel, Retirement Ain’t Easy, I post retirement/life related videos and then I post vinyl record collecting videos as well.  I am enjoying it but sometimes it feels like work to get a video together.  I think I have released a video at least once per week since my YouTube channel started on January 1, 2024.  I also started another channel for my music career and got certified as an Official Artist Channel (OAC) on YouTube. go check out my OAC here.
GRADE: A

Resolution #4 Start a side hustle – photography, music recording, eBay store

I have not done much to resolve this one.  I have the equipment to start a portrait photography business out of my house and actually named my business – Take My Foto – but that is as far as that has gotten.  

I have enough recording gear and music instruments to record music out of my house and I have successfully done that with my own stuff.  I guess becoming a Spotify/Apple/YouTube Artist could be considered a side hustle as I do get paid for streams and if someone buys my music.  I plan to keep doing that.  Working on songs and releasing them for public consumption is work, but work of an enjoyable kind.  Except writing lyrics, that is tough to do. 

I have not created an Ebay store, but I do have enough stuff to sell that it could be successful. Maybe it’s time for a garage sale.  For this resolution I’m going to grade myself passing due to the music artist side hustle, but needs improvement
GRADE: C

Resolution #5 Blog once per week

This is going fine.  Especially since I’ve been doing a series of postings of my LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER (future memoir) and of course this posting.  I have been posting once per week so far this year.  So this has been successful. PLEASE NOTE: I have rebranded this blog to match my YouTube channel.
GRADE: A

There you have it.  My 2024 New Year’s Resolutions Q1 Report Card

I’m going to work on losing more weight.  I’ve been a little lax in my calorie counting.  I need to get back in the groove.  I still have a lot of toys and comics I need to sell.  Our plan is to do some down sizing for 3 years so we can move into a smaller place possibly on a lake in Texas.  For a video version of this go to my YouTube channel – Retirement Ain’t Easy or click the video below.

Come back next week as I pick back up on my memoir inserts from my LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER memoir. Thanks for stopping by and reading this far.

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Blog Rebranding – Retirement Ain’t Easy

Please note:

I have rebranded this blog to match my YouTube channel as they are getting to be one and the same lately. The new URL is www.retirementainteasy.com. The current URL should still forward to this new one but you should save the new one and remove the old one.

Thanks for stopping by. Check out my YouTube channel – Retirement Ain’t Easy.

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Vinyl of the Month – Secret Treaties by Blue Oyster Cult

This month’s Vinyl of the Month is Blue Oyster Cult‘s 3rd album, Secret Treaties. There is a good story behind why I chose this album to be Vinyl of the Month. That story is captured on my YouTube channelRetirement Ain’t Easy. Go check it out or click the play button below on the video. Like and Subscribe,

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My Life as a Band Member – Second Chance 1.0

This is the continuation of a series of posts – select Category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER to read in sequence.

After all the practicing in a garage for months, Second Chance version 1.0 (Me, Dennis, Steve, Mick and Howard) was ready to play out. We started looking to play at local bars but of course with no experience and no media package or word of mouth, we had to take what we could get. Even if it was for free.

Ellison High School Commons Area – Fall 1980 ©John Sturgeon Photography

I can’t remember if it was our first gig but in the Fall of 1980 we played the Ellison High School commons area during lunch time. Playing my old High School was a dream come true. The commons area was like a big open area with a stage that abutted the open cafeteria. A really big area with a nice, big stage. Back then, we had cheap instruments and borrowed speakers and amps from the Fort Hood Music Center but we made the best of it.

We were playing in front of people that knew me. My brothers and their friends and our girlfriends were in the audience. Because Ellison had two lunch periods and we were only playing during the first, we had kids skipping their classes to sit and listen to us. Because Howard was still in High School himself (a different high school), he had to skip a whole day of classes. I don’t know if he ever got in trouble for that.

Ellison High School Commons Area – Fall 1980 ©John Sturgeon Photography

Playing my old high school was a feeling I will never forget. I started to come out of my introvert shell and become a front man. We were a five piece at the time but we would later return and play Ellison High School again as a four piece after Howard moved away with his family.

Fiddlers Green ©John Sturgeon Photography

We got another gig on Fort Hood playing for the Grunts (slang for military personnel) at Fiddlers Green, a recreation center for the military folks. It was a kind of activity hall for adults. We set up our equipment, once again we were borrowing from the Fort Hood Music Center, and that night during our sound check Howard touched his bass and then touched a microphone and started shocking the shit out of himself. Dennis, being the quick thinker, tackled him to get him to release the mic. It was a scary moment and a learning experience – make sure everything is grounded.  Howard was shook up and disappeared for a walk outside for 30-45 minutes. He returned and played the gig. It was a small audience but we had fun playing for them. They loved the live music. We were getting better and better at playing live. We were ready for bigger things.

Fiddlers Green ©John Sturgeon Photography

The story continues …

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My Life as a Band Member – the start of Second Chance

This is the continuation of a series of posts – select Category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER to read in sequence.

Spring 1980 rolled around and I was back home in my room that I had left 4 months before to attend the University of Southern Mississippi.  I started dating my future wife.  I started taking computer science courses at the community college, Central Texas college.  My Dad bought me a car so I could get around to classes and such.  I had my family around and mom cooking dinner.  My brothers and their friends were around to hang out with.  I was happy to be home.  Best of all, Dennis was back in town after flunking out of the University of Texas.  I believe he had a .4 GPA.  He was back home in Harker Heights and working at a restaurant called the Steak Out.  

We started jamming together again at the Music Center and got together with our buddy Howard who was still attending Killeen High School.  I don’t remember how or when, but during the summer of 1980 Dennis  met a couple of brothers who had moved to Killeen, Steve and Mike (we called him Mick).  Steve and Mick lived with their parents in Killeen and Mick was going to Ellison High School.  Steve played guitar and Mick played drums.  With Howard on bass and Dennis on guitar that left me to be the lead singer.

©John Sturgeon Photography

Dennis named us SECOND CHANCE. The name story was that Bill L., our drummer from our first band LEAF, used to drive an old black car that we called the Batmobile. It had a habit of not starting or just stalling while being driven.  One afternoon the car decided to stall on a train track and sure as luck would have it, it got hit by a train. Bill got out in time and survived.  Hey is still with us and lives happily in Central Texas.  Dennis figured he got a second chance at life. Dennis remembered that episode and so we called ourselves Second Chance.  

The Garage – ©John Sturgeon Photography

Second Chance practiced a lot in Steve and Mick’s family garage, and sometimes Howards’ family garage.  The 1980 Texas summer was sometimes brutal but we persevered and sweated out the practice sessions.  Because I was just singing, my guitar playing took a back seat at that point and suffered.  I focused my efforts on learning the lyrics to songs and mimicking the singers as best I could.  Not to brag, but I could sing like Rob Halford of Judas Priest, Geddy Lee of Rush and Bon Scott of AC/DC and throw in some Robert Plant of Led Zeppelin for good measure.

We practiced a lot.  We were learning songs that no other bands were doing that we were aware of.  Ted Nugent, Judas Priest, Montrose, AC/DC and Led Zeppelin.  We got to be pretty damn good.  By the Fall of 1980, we were ready to play our first gig.  We played my alma mater, the Ellison High School commons area during lunch time.

The story continues….

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My Life as a band member – life after LEAF

This is the continuation of a series of posts – select Category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER to read in sequence.

Before anything more happened with the LEAF we all graduated from high school and off we went to college.  I went to Mississippi, Dennis went to the University of Texas in Austin Texas and Bill took off for West Texas and Texas Tech.  Howard was still in high school and drummer Bill found other opportunities, probably as a guitarist since that was his main instrument. That was the end of LEAF.  

While at the University of Southern Mississippi, I completely stopped playing guitar.  I left all my music making equipment in Texas and immersed myself into school and enjoying college life as a freshman.  Thanks to two summers working at a Mo Ranch, a Texas Hill Country Presbyterian resort, I initially had no concerns being away from home.  I never felt homesick.  That was until I came home for one week during November for Thanksgiving and I met this red haired girl who lived across the cul-de-sac.  For that story I made a video for my kids to tell them how I met their mother. Go watch this to understand what happened there.

During that week of Thanksgiving, I also got back in touch with Dennis and Howard.  Dennis was home for Thanksgiving as well and was not doing very well in his college studies.  He was failing.  It seems being away from the strict hand of his parents, he became undisciplined and unfocused.  He didn’t really want to go to college, he wanted music.  Like all of us kids with military parents, he went off to college because it was expected of us.  Like it or not.  You were preached to choose a major, go to college, graduate nd get a job and your own life.  Dennis basically quit going to classes. 

Dennis was home for the holidays and was not planning on going back to the University of Texas.  So we talked about getting a band together.  Howard was in his senior year of high school and had no issues getting the band back together. So, with plans for a band and the introduction to the red haired girl across the cul-de-sac, that was all it took to make me not want to return to school.  I grudgingly returned to Mississippi to finish out the semester but I begged my parents to let me come home and take classes at a local community college.  They agreed and I couldn’t wait to take my semester finals and pack up and come home.

I said goodbye to my dorm roommate, packed my sparse belongings in boxes and headed home to Texas.  My Dad came and got me.  I was now home and enrolled in a local college with plans for a new band in the works.  I started dating that red haired girl who would, 5 years later, become my wife.  But that is another story altogether.  Go watch the video.  

Dennis and I picked up where we left off with learning songs on the guitar we and started planning our next band.  The story continues next week.

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Battle of the Bands – LEAF

This is the continuation of a series of posts – select Category LIFE AS A BAND MEMBER to read in sequence.

I learned many songs from Dennis but the first two songs that LEAF actually played publicly as a band were Strutter by KISS and Jumpin’ Jack Flash by the Rolling Stones.  We spent hours practicing these songs in a sound proof music booth at the Music Center on Fort Hood (TX). We didn’t have enough songs for a full 2 hour set at a local bar, so we couldn’t get any gigs. Let’s be honest, at this point, we were not very good.

Finally, an opportunity presented itself to play our hard learned songs for people other than girlfriends.  A Battle of the Bands was held at our weekend hang out, the Music Center.  We were pumped.  There were only three bands in the competition.  We had never seen these bands practicing at the Music Center, so we felt pretty good about our chances of winning.

We drew the short straw and played first.  We boldly set up our borrowed beat up Music Center amps and drum set.  We plugged in our no-name pawn shop guitars and bass, and we played our hearts out.  I don’t recall us making any mistakes. From where I was standing, at the right side of the stage, I thought we sounded really good.  We hit our marks as practiced and Bill sang the best I’d ever heard. We completed playing our two songs and looked out to the audience for appreciation. There was a smattering of applause from our girlfriends. The audience consisted of our girlfriends, the other two bands, and their girlfriends. We left the stage on a high, congratulating each other on our accomplishment.  

That high lasted about 20 minutes.  That’s how long it took the next band to set up their own, not borrowed, amps, their very expensive Gibson Les Paul guitars and their own shiny drum set and start playing.  They were good.  They were better than good.  They could play their instruments on a whole higher level and they were playing songs that made our simple songs sound like nursery rhymes. 

I don’t remember the band’s name, but I would later learn the name of the guitarist who was playing a red sunburst Gibson Les Paul.  A real Gibson Les Paul.  His name was Doug Soto and he was the nicest person you could ever meet and an extremely talented guitarist.  We were in awe of their perfect rendition of Blue Oyster Cults Dominance and Submission.  You could’ve closed your eyes and swear you were listening to the BOC album Secret Treaties.  I don’t remember their second song but I do remember sitting, as a band, in the auditorium seats and slowly slinking down in our seats.  There was an unspoken feeling of crushing defeat at that point. Perhaps second place would be just fine for our first outing.

There were only three bands competing in the Battle of the Bands.  Out of the three, only two would get to play to a larger audience of soldiers on, I believe, a July 4th celebration.  Can you guess which band, out of the three, didn’t make the cut? Yep, LEAF did not make the cut. It was a blow to our ego but also a wake up call that we needed to commit more time and effort to the band and practice.  The two bands we faced in that Battle of the Bands were, what I would call, local-professionals.  They were playing at local bars on a regular basis.  We needed to get to that level.

High School graduation came and LEAF broke up as we all headed off to college in different directions.

The story continues in my next posting.

For previous chapters in this story see :

Dennis, geometry, music and guitar

My First Band – LEAF

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Vinyl of the Month – Wind and Wuthering by Genesis

Wind and Wuthering by Genesis was featured 4 years ago here but I had since rediscussed this album for my YouTube channel. Go check it out. Subscribe for more stuff.

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